The breakup may even spotlight disturbing things about this person —emotional immaturity, indecision, inflexibility, intolerance, a lack of consideration for your feelings.
Remember, in the same verse in which James urges Christians to “draw close to God,” he also exhorts: “Cleanse your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you indecisive ones.” —James 4:8.
The film critic David Thomson believed that Hoffman showed indecisiveness at this time, unsure whether to play spectacular supporting roles or become a lead actor who is capable of controlling the emotional dynamic and outcome of a film.