boyfriend oor Xhosa

boyfriend

/`boɪfrend/, /ˈbɔɪ.ˌfrɛnd/, /ˈbɔɪ.ˌfrɪnd/ naamwoord

A male partner in a romantic relationship.

Boyfriend

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“When my pregnancy- test results came out positive,” recalls Judy, “my boyfriend immediately demanded that I get an abortion.
UJudy ukhumbula oku: “Xa iingxelo zokuxilongwa kwam zaphuma zisithi ndikhulelwe, kwangoko inkwenkwe endithandana nayo yathi mandiqhomfe.

In any event, it is not your responsibility to make your boyfriend change.
Eneneni, asiyombopheleleko yakho ukuphembelela umfana othandana naye ukuba atshintshe.

Boyfriends often try to pressure girls into having an abortion
Ngokufuthi amakhwenkwe azama ukunyanzela amantombazana athandana nawo ukuba aqhomfe

“I must comment, however, that when I’ve been hurt by my friends, especially my boyfriend, I just take hold of this little book and read it.
“Noko ke, ndingathi nje, xa ndikhathazwe ngabahlobo bam, ingakumbi inkwenkwe endithandana nayo, ndisuka nje ndithabathe le ncwadi incinane ndize ndiyifunde.

“They are not dating, but they do consider each other boyfriend and girlfriend.”
Abenzi madinga, kodwa ngamnye kubo uzijonga njengesithandwa somnye.”

▪ “Some kids aren’t finding comfort at home, so they decide to lean on a boyfriend or girlfriend.” —Wendy.
▪ “Abanye abantwana abaxhaswa ngokweemvakalelo ekhaya, ngoko ke baxhomekeka kubafana okanye kumantombazana enza nawo amadinga.”—UWendy.

Soon thereafter, Eva left her boyfriend in order to live by Bible standards.
Kungekudala emva koko, uEva wamshiya umntu awayethandana naye ukuze aphile ngemigaqo yeBhayibhile.

“My boyfriend didn’t want others to know that we were dating,” recalls Angela.
UAngela uthi: “Umfana endandithandana naye wayengafuni ukuba abanye bazi ukuba siyathandana.

She explains: “Some of my teammates had boyfriends who used drugs and smoked.
Uthi: “Amanye amantombazana esasidlala nawo ayethandana nabafana abasebenzisa iziyobisi nabatshayayo.

BEWARE IF YOUR BOYFRIEND . . .
UFANELE ULUMKE UKUBA UMFANA OTHANDANA NAYE . . .

Recreational or casual dating —pairing off merely for fun or for the sake of having a boyfriend or a girlfriend— can easily lead to hurt feelings.
Ukuthandana nje—ukuba nomntu osoloko esecaleni kwakho okanye ukuze kuthiwe nawe uyathandana—kunokwenzakalisa iimvakalelo.

At the age of 18, I went to live with my boyfriend and had a baby.
Xa ndandineminyaka eli-18 ubudala ndaya kuhlala nomfana endandithandana naye, saza saba nosana.

“Hey, how come you don’t have a boyfriend?” she asks.
Ithi: “Kutheni ungenamntu uthandana naye nje?”

In Los Angeles, gang members shot at a car and killed an innocent three-year-old whose mother and boyfriend had mistakenly turned down the wrong street.
ELos Angeles, imigulukudu yadubula enye inqwelo-mafutha yaza yabulala umntwana omsulwa oneminyaka emithathu ubudala xa unina nesithandwa sakhe ngempazamo bangena kwisitrato ababengafanele bangene kuso.

One girl quoted in Seventeen allowed her boyfriend to pressure her into performing oral sex.
Enye intombazana ekucatshulwe amazwi ayo kwiphephancwadi iSeventeen yavumela inkwenkwe ethandana nayo iyinyanzelele ekwenzeni iintlobano zesini zasemlonyeni.

“At first,” she says, “I was flattered that my boyfriend was always worrying about where I was, what I was doing, and who I was with.
Uthi: “Ekuqaleni, ndandiyithanda into yokuba umfana endithandana naye esoloko efun’ ukwazi apho ndikhoyo, into endiyenzayo nabantu endikunye nabo.

She was very enthusiastic and wanted her boyfriend to learn all about it.
Wayethabatheke kakhulu ibe wayefuna ukuba isithandwa sakhe sifunde ngako oku.

Others may lower their standards just so they can have a boyfriend —or even a husband.
Amanye anokude athobe imilinganiselo aphila ngayo ukuze athandane—okanye atshate.

“Oh oh, Thando’s got a boyfriend, Thando’s got a boyfriend ...” she chants.
“Nye-nyenye-nye-nye, uThando unesinqandamathe, uThando unesinqandamathe ...” ucule loo ngoma.

Seventeen-year-old Monica became pregnant by her boyfriend just as she was about to start business school.
UMonica oneminyaka eli-17 ubudala wakhulelwa engatshatanga kanye xa wayeza kuqala kwisikolo sezoshishino.

Tammy recalls: “After I was caught with my boyfriend, my father was scared.
UTammy ukhumbula oku: “Emva kokuba wandibhaqa ndikunye nenkwenkwe endandithandana nayo, utata waba noloyiko.

I wish he was my boyfriend, but now he will never be, thanks to her big mouth.
Ndinqwenela ukuba abesisinqandamathe sam, kodwa ngoku akasoze abe saba siso, ngenxa yaloo mlomo wakho mkhulu.

I thought that my boyfriend and I would have such fun.
Ndandicinga ukuba mna nesithandwa sam sasiza konwaba.

Judy’s boyfriend gave her the ultimatum: “If you don’t get an abortion, I don’t want to see you ever again.”
Inkwenkwe athandana nayo uJudy yamsongela ngokuthi: “Ukuba akuqhomfi, andifuni ukuphinda ndikubone phambi kwam.”

And if your boyfriend makes you feel threatened or demeaned, something is seriously wrong.
Yaye ukuba umfana othandana naye usoloko ekutyityimbisela umnwe okanye ekuthob’ isidima, kukho undonakele.